10 Signs That He's A Keeper
Don't be discouraged, ladies. There are men that are looking for a committed relationship. You just have to know what to look for. Here are ten ways to tell if he's marriage material.
Here are 3 ways to start off right.
- He's genuinely interested in you.
A man that prioritizes your needs over your physical appearance is looking for love.
- He abides by your rules
Stick to your standards and you'll weed out the men who aren't serious.
- Lay the foundation for your conversation
You control the direction of your conversation. Do you want flirty conversation, or a heart-to-heart? Do you prefer to message, chat or talk over the phone? With a few simple ground rules in place, all you two have to focus on is getting to know each other on a deeper level.
- He calls you right away.
"I was busy" should never be an excuse. If he's serious, he'll make time to call you.
- He pays the bill.
If a man picks up the check, he's not just being chivalrous, he's showing that he's willing to provide for you.
- He shows up on time.
Men make time for what they're serious about. If he's late to most of your dates, then you just may not be a priority.
- He introduces you to his people.
A love-minded man will want to get you in front of his family as soon as possible, so he can see how you'll fit into his life.
- He's comfortable around your people.
A man that can handle himself around your friends and family is a keeper.
- He's comfortable around your kids.
A man that can hold his own with your kids is a keeper.
- He's a natural provider.
A man that has a career or can hold down a job is a keeper.
- He wants your relationship to be exclusive.
If a man sees you as his wife, he'll want to you to be exclusive immediately. Only men who aren't serious want to keep their options open.
By Steve Harvey
for Chemistry.com